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Financial Fluency Episode #54: Project Positive Change with Leigh Daniel

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Project Positive Change is something I have been excited about for nearly a year!

Every day there are more individuals saying “I’m choosing to be a light, and to spread that instead”.

And Leigh, with PPC, is giving those people a platform. People who want to share their message and want to give hope to other people.

There are two sides to the project, as a platform for people’s message and also as a community, with opportunities for joint ventures and support.

Leigh has so many ideas – PPC Publishing, University, Speakers arm, Outreach to the Middle East and India, Radio – the sky is the limit!

You can click here to join Project Positive Change.

Listen in below to find out more about Leigh and how Project Positive Change came about

 


For as long as she can remember, Leigh  wanted to have a “different life” as a small girl in a small town.

She hadn’t been out of the southern United States, but wanted to be a student of the world. Her first big break came when she followed the suggestion of a professor and  went to law school. Within one year of graduating, she struck out on her own.

She poured her heart and soul into her practice until – after almost 20 years – she began to feel the heavy effects of divorce practice. Despite her successful practice and reputation as a tough litigant, she was filled with sadness.

She has spent the last several years firmly deciding to be happy.

These days she does workshops and has spoken to hundreds of people about transformation. Twice a year she presents to people from all over the world in Key West, Florida, with her partner Jonathan Benjamin at Possibilities in Paradise.

You can find out more here.

Financial Fluency Episode #53: Creative Soul with Shari Teigman

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Today I have the lovely Shari Teigman from the Creative Soul Lab. Creative Soul Lab is a podcast that I absolutely adore, I’ve been on it before and I listen to it regularly.

We talk about how our own beliefs can be the biggest obstacle to finding the success we want, the shame that comes from having not enough money AND too much, as well as how tied up we are emotionally to our own worth and finances.

As usual I got some tips for you!

Shari’s Tips

  1. Figure out where you are and how you got stuck there
  2. Curiosity and play are non negotiable for a fulfilled life
  3. Don’t hang out with people who bring you down and don’t get you

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Quotes

Besides human children I also have passion babies, like my podcast – Shari

Anyone who is a business owner, really has their soul tied up in their work – Shari

The podcast is a variety show of Shari ramblings and interviews – Shari

I was a typical, standard Stepford wife (Editor: No way!) – Shari

I had to redefine who I was as a financial being – Shari

A lot of the time the people a few steps ahead of us are more inspiring than the uber-successful, millionaires – Jen

Historically smart, educated, creative women have had issues with marriage – Jen

I grew up in a world where the princesses married the princes – Shari

Empowered people make better partners, parents and citizens in the world – Shari

I didn’t know what I wanted, but I knew what I didn’t want – Shari

I didn’t believe I was someone who could earn enough to cover my bills every month. I still struggle with that – Shari

If I heard my kids talking to themselves how I talk to myself – there’d be an ice-cream party and a pony – Shari


ShariShari is a Transformational Coach and Soul Explorer focusing on creative business strategy. Shari works with people to help them to re-light the soul of their life and their businesses.

By helping her clients lift the veil of groundhog day, of living how you’re supposed to, controlled by all the shoulds and have to’s and losing your soul along the way. Shari helps people walk their way at home in their lives and in their businesses.

Find the Creative Soul Lab podcast here

Financial Fluency Episode #52 Income Is Only Half The Story

Today I wanted to talk about the idea that revenue can solve all problems or that income solves all problems. I’ve heard people say this especially in terms of businesses, that when there’s a problem.

Generate more revenue and it can take care of everything else.

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In our own personal financial lives, I tend to think that the income really is only half the story and I wanted to talk about this particularly because I’ve talked to a few women lately who have had significant debt and who have had issues with their finances but they’re counting on an event happening, a launch, or something where there’s either a large amount of income in a short period of time or in a lump sum, that’s going to wipe all the debt out and take care of everything. And because of their expectation of this they don’t want to put a plan in place in the meantime to start working on the debt and to reduce.

So, I wanted to do this episode to talk about the idea that while yes, increasing your income can help in a lot of ways, I have talked to a number of high-earning women who still have a lot of these same problems, because something that happens both in companies and in our own lives is often as you increase your income you also increase your expenses and depending what line of work you are in, those expenses can get really high.

An Example

I’m going to give an example. This is a made-up person, but let’s say you are a lawyer in New York City working in a law firm and one of the things you like to do is entertain people at your own home with dinner parties. Which means you have an apartment in Manhattan that’s very nice. You have to keep up appearances to a certain level. You probably have a lot of student debt from going through law school to start with and then in making partner you have to travel, you have to wear certain clothes, you have to do all these kinds of things that all cost a lot of money. So it’s very possible for a lawyer living in Manhattan to have a great deal of debt. To have a high-income, yes, but also have very high expenses and be just as strapped and just as pay check to pay check as a much lower earner. So, the idea that just income will solve all the problems, I’d like to examine that and take a look.

Will Increasing Income Solve All Your Problems?

I think that building up the habits that are going to continue to build your savings, pay down your debt, all along as you increase your income can really make a difference.

And, paying attention to the details in the moment. I don’t want people to have to pay attention to all the details of all their financial life all the time because I think that creates decision fatigue that can overwhelm. Which is why I really love the process of automating the simplest things like your regularly recurring bills.

Automating so that your mortgage or rent gets paid every month, you know all the things that have to happen every month. You can automate those. It doesn’t take as much of your brain power or your will-power or your decision-making power. It’s less of that executive cognitive function that gets exhausted and you can put more of that towards the real decision that you need to make.

That’s why I’m such a fan of automation. Earlier today I spoke with the members of my Mastering Money Matters Group about automation and there were a number of people who had a lot of resistance to it. They had a lot of reasons why it wouldn’t work for them and I do understand that resistance. When we talked through it and really go down to the underlying issues, a lot of it is control; wanting to feel like you have control of things and that you are taking action. So giving up some of that for the basic things that have to happen every month, it’s regularly occurring you know, you’re not, not going to pay your rent right? So even if you have a irregular income the rent is going to get paid one way or another, right? So that’s why I feel like if you automate that, yes you still have to check on it, you can monitor the system, but it’s not a decision that you are making. It’s not an action that you are taking. You can save that part of your energy of making decisions and taking actions for things that will increase your revenue.

Reducing Bills, Automation and Eating Your Raises!

Also, with reducing your bills, calling and negotiating. You don’t have to do that all the time, you don’t have to do it every month, you don’t have to do it every day. If you do it once a year, or maybe twice a year it could get those savings locked in and then they just keep recurring over and over.

That’s why I love the idea of automating the simplest part of your finances so that it takes it off your plate and you don’t have to actively think about it anymore. And that is the whole reason for setting up systems. And we do this through a lot of different ways.

You know we set notifications on our phones, we set alerts for appointments, we outsource different tasks in different ways and that’s what I like about doing this with your finances. So really the whole point of this episode is just the idea that if you start putting those systems into place now while you are still dealing with debt (if you have debt) and while you are planning on increasing your income, if that is a plan for you; I feel like that it’s a plan for a lot of people over the long term to increase income.

If you start putting a little in savings now, you know you kind of buildup that muscle. You get used to money going to savings. If you start paying more off on your debt every month, a bit more at least than the minimum so that you are making headway with the principal you get used to doing that.

If you go and use a snowball calculator and figure out how long it will take you to pay off the debt at your current rate then every time some more money comes in and you can put more to that you can go recalculate, you can see how much closer that date comes and how much less interest you will be paying. When you do get more income you will have the system set up so that you can most quickly and easily use it to move towards your goals faster rather than just increasing your expenses.

The Hedonic Treadmill

When I was in college I went to New York once to visit an older cousin of mine who I was very impressed with who had a career and an apartment. I remember talking to her about living in New York and she said that the hard thing was every time you get a raise you give yourself a few more comforts because it is so expensive to live in New York, you know.

When she first moved there she wasn’t doing things like buying coffees at Starbucks and when she got a raise then she could do that and when she got another raise she could get a bigger apartment or she could go out to dinner more now and that she felt like there was this process of just eating your raises.

I remember reading an article on the hedonic treadmill. It was the idea that when something comes into your world and changes the level you are at there is a momentary boost in happiness, You feel happier for a while, but pretty soon, even though you are at this new level of income or achievement or whatever it is, you go back to your old level of happiness at this new level of income, say.

So the next time you get a raise, the same thing happens, and you basically just get used to it; it becomes part of your life and you build it in.

A Smarter Way to Save

But again, if you have some systems in place to take either a certain amount or a percentage and keep filtering it into savings, or if you use something like digit.co, that’s a great tool to use for savings because it is based on how much money is in the account that it is hooked up to, and on the spending habits you have.

If you used to only keep a certain amount in an account, say $1,000, it would take very, very small amounts out for savings. If you suddenly started keeping $2,500 a month in that account , that’s roughly where you keep your balance, now it would be taking a little more of that money and putting it into savings. If you start keeping $5,000 in that account it will be taking even more.

That’s one way that you could do it kind of as a percentage of what you are keeping. But of course you don’t want to keep huge amounts in the checking account and I hooked digit up to a checking account so that I could see my spending habits. I’m not sure how well it would work with a savings account where you don’t actually have a lot of transactions on a daily basis.

Getting used to having savings go out and your debt being paid down in a way that’s actually paying down the principal and not just paying the interest with the minimums, if you do that right now, instead of waiting, then I think it will really put you in good stead for your future financial life.

And that’s all I really wanted to say with this episode, so thank you so much for joining me!

Let’s Keep The Conversation Going

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So please come and don’t forget to subscribe, rate and review on iTunes. Every review helps, and I read them all to hear what you guys want more of, what you appreciate so far, and if there is anything that you would like differently, go ahead and put it in there for you! I would love to hear it! Thank you so much.